Onetime beauty queen, Dabota Lawson, would be remember for her controversial marriage with Prince Sunny Aku.
The marriage was such a sad one that Lawson couldn’t wait to be out of it. In the middle of the crisis that rocked the relationship, the beautiful lady even took to social media to reveal that she was scared for her life.
According to her, she couldn’t sleep in her matrimonial home for fear of being killed. Eventually, she did walked out of the marriage, as she filed for divource in a substantive court.
The lady who could not manage her marriage is giving relationship advice.
In one of her sessions, the lady wrote:
Being cheated on is an awful feeling, but how you handle it can have a big part in your recovery process. Whether you try to rebuild the relationship or you decide to end things.
Here are some ways you can deal with the SITUATION;
1 Decide if you want to re-establish trust.
You may also need to ask yourself these questions • Is your partner truly sorry? • Has this sort of behavior happened before, or has he or she promised to not do it, and it has continued or gotten worse? • Is your partner willing to take steps to mend the relationship such as counseling. • Do you truly feel you want to trust this person again? There is no right or wrong answer for this. This is entirely up to the person who has been cheated on.
It’s also important to Understand the nature of your partner’s cheating. People cheat for many different reasons and it is not always about sex. Sometimes people cheat because they are seeking an emotional connection
Request that your partner cut off all communication with the third party.
If your partner is unwilling to cut off contact with the third party, it may be a sign that they are unwilling to stop cheating. In this case, you may not be able to repair the relationship.
Forgive on your own terms. Your partner may be extremely apologetic and desperate for you to say that you forgive them, right then and there. But true forgiveness and healing will likely take time.
Lastly , It is OK to not forgive. Cheating is a deep wound, and sometimes is fatal to a relationship. How did you deal with a cheating partner ?
Do you agree with what she has said above and do think Lawson is really qualified to give relationship advice?
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